DEAR MISS MANNERS: I was born a natural redhead. But as the years went by, my hair color faded away, and now I need extra help from my beautician to keep my hair red.

My entire life, strangers have asked me, rather frequently, if red is my natural color. Now, I feel inclined to explain that it once was, but that I currently dye it. However, that feels awkward and unnecessary.

What would you suggest I say when someone asks me this very direct question?

GENTLE READER: “My hair is naturally red.” This is not only technically truthful, but more importantly, succinct. You do not owe anyone, much less impertinent strangers — and it is indeed impertinent to ask someone such a private question — a detailed confessional.

Miss Manners will leave it up to you if you feel compelled to divulge the whole truth to your friends — but she holds out hope that your friends are too polite to ask. Or already know the answer.

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