DEAR MISS MANNERS: I own a beachfront timeshare with two bedrooms, each with a full bath attached. When I invite a guest, should I offer them the much larger “owner’s suite,” or the very-nice-but-smaller guest suite?

Do I take my guidance from the names of these spaces, or should I give my guest the larger space?

GENTLE READER: The reason you have a guest room — a rather lush one, Miss Manners gathers — is to avoid resenting your guest for displacing you from your own room. So please put your guest in the room for guests.

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