Dear Annie: I know from personal experience the pain of being separated from a grandchild, especially an only grandchild. It’s a unique kind of heartbreak.

I’ve been fortunate to have a great-niece to love and dote on occasionally. Without her, I’d feel a deep void. For those in similar situations, I strongly suggest finding other little ones to care for and love.

Over the years, I’ve come across wonderful opportunities for volunteers who help children, such as programs where people can rock babies in hospital settings. A quick Google search for “volunteer baby cuddler” led me to several hospital systems in my area with programs to cuddle and comfort babies in need.

Other organizations, like baby pantries or pregnancy crisis centers, also offer chances to assist families with children. Even volunteering at a church nursery could be an option, provided someone is already established in that community.

These avenues can be incredibly fulfilling and help fill the gap in a meaningful way. I hope this advice can inspire others who are struggling with the loss of connection to their grandchildren. — Melancholy

Dear Melancholy: These are wonderful suggestions.

Thank you for sharing.

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