Dear Annie: My good friend is a flake! How do I avoid resentment?

Dear Annie: My dear friend is turning into a chronic flake, constantly canceling plans at the last minute with vague excuses. It’s becoming a bit of a pattern, and truth be told, it’s hurting my feelings. I can feel the resentment building up.

How do I address this without turning it into a full-blown fight? I genuinely want to keep her friendship, but these constant cancellations are really getting on my nerves. — Flaked On and Frustrated

Dear Flaked On: Honesty is the best policy here. Share that you value your connection and want to understand what’s going on. It could be that life is throwing curveballs her way. Remember, relationships that weather storms often come out stronger. An open conversation might bring clarity and even end up strengthening your bond.

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