Dear Annie: I don’t want to be the clingy friend

Dear Annie: My friend “Emily” got married a few months ago, and since then, I have barely seen her at all.

I’ve invited her out a couple of times, but she is always busy with her new married life and couple activities. I’m still single and I miss the time when we would talk every day and hang out every weekend.

I don’t want to intrude on her new life or seem clingy, but I’m pretty offended by the way she has let our friendship fall by the wayside. How can I bridge this gap and maintain our friendship without feeling left behind? — Single Friend Struggling

Dear Single: Navigating this change in Emily’s life and your friendship can certainly be challenging, but it’s possible to adapt. Openly express your feelings to Emily. Let her know that you value your friendship and miss the closeness you once shared.

Next, try to engage with her new world. Suggest activities that can include her spouse and their friends sometimes, which might make it easier for her to balance her relationships.

You should also embrace this phase of life by expanding your own social circle and interests. Friendships evolve, and with a little effort and open communication, you can adjust to this new chapter in both of your lives.

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