Dear Eric: My husband of 50 years passed away suddenly last year. We had just moved into a retirement community. I still hurt deeply but not all the time anymore. My neighbor is facing a similar situation. I am beginning to feel an attraction. We have a definite bond and get along really well. Should I feel guilty about these feelings? I don’t know if it’s too soon or if it was meant to be. At least it gives me something to look forward to.

– Confused

Dear Confused: Feel your feelings without judgment but proceed with caution. This could be the beginning of something very special, but you’ll want to make sure that you’re keeping communication open and moving at a pace that prioritizes where each of you is emotionally. Mostly, I’d encourage you not to rush. You’re getting to know your neighbor but you’re also getting to know a new part of yourself.

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