This is an opinion column

Do you ever watch that reality show about Amish people who venture out into mainstream American culture for a time, and though the experience decide whether to return to their Amish communities or stay in the English world.

I wonder if there are ever people who try it the opposite way? I consider it. Especially when I am overwhelmed or stressed or too busy. And I am not shy about it. I tell people. My family knows that about twice a month I consider persuading the entire family to move to Pennsylvania Dutch country.

I don’t know the details of how it would work. I guess I would have to trade in my car keys for a horse and buggy. There would likely be some discussion about tight jeans, eye shadow, and my tendency to cuss. And I would have to surrender my phone and Windcreek player’s card. So, I can’t go.

Even if I could talk the rest of my family into going, the Amish would not have me. I could not live their lifestyle, but I admire their dedication to their religion and beliefs. In everything they do, they consider God.

Most people believe in God. There seems to be an uptick in interest in the Lord the closer a person gets to danger, death, and uncertainty, but most people believe in a higher power. God often moves in a person’s life in some meaningful way that solidifies their faith in believing. It is a relationship firmly based in faith.

In the wake of the calculated mass shooting at Covenant School – a Christian school – in Nashville, Tennessee, God is back in people’s discussions.

Most Christians would agree that their faith in God has helped hold them in orbit at different times of trouble or grief. Times when the human strength to hold was gone.

The alternative to believing in God, is the emptiness of believing in nothing.

People who believe in God believe there is eternal life beyond our physical life experience here on Earth. This knowing brings great peace and comfort to believers who have lost loved ones. I have little doubt that the students, teachers, and families touched by the tragedy at Covenant School are relying on their faith in God as they attempt to move forward.

This faith, this promise God has made with his people, will be repeated over and over at churches throughout the country as everyone tries to wrap their minds around this latest school shooting.

Anytime something tragic happens, or there is a disastrous situation, thoughts and prayers will be offered by those who believe – and almost like clockwork, there will be those few who get vocal about needing more than thoughts and prayers.

What exactly would that be regarding the Covenant School shooting? These were openly Christian people. Would a monetary donation be more appropriate? Plant a tree? What?

The fitting thing to say when thoughts and prayers are offered – even for someone with who is a firm nonbeliever – is thank you. If you don’t need them, you won’t feel them, but for those who believe they hold meaning and value.

Often in life, you may find all you’ve got are thoughts and prayers, or the emptiness of nothing. Choose wisely.

Amanda Walker is a columnist and contributor with AL.com, The Birmingham News, Selma Times Journal, Thomasville Times, West Alabama Watchman, and Alabama Gazette. Contact her at [email protected] or at https://www.facebook.com/AmandaWalker.Columnist.