Strong to severe storms were moving through parts of Alabama on Saturday morning, and more will be possible later today.
And Sunday. And Monday. And Tuesday.
A severe thunderstorm watch is in effect for parts of Alabama until 10 a.m.:
A severe thunderstorm watch continues until 10 a.m. Saturday.SPC
All north Alabama counties have been dropped from the watch, but these counties remained as of 5:30 a.m.: Blount, Calhoun, Cherokee, Clay, Cleburne, Etowah, Jefferson, Pickens, Shelby, St. Clair, Randolph, Talladega and Tuscaloosa.
A cluster of strong to severe storms continued to drop to the south and east across the state on Saturday morning.
The National Weather Service offices in both Huntsville and Birmingham have issued several severe thunderstorm warnings as of 5 a.m. Saturday and have started to get some reports of downed trees from parts of north and central Alabama.
This morning’s storms have also brought high winds and hail.
NOAA’s Storm Prediction Center has a Level 1 out of 5 risk for severe weather in place for much of the state today (see the map at the top of this post).
A Level 1 risk means that isolated severe storms will be possible.
The strongest storms could have damaging winds, hail and heavy rain. Tornadoes are not expected.
The cluster of rain and storms is expected to continue to work its way to the south and east this morning. Forecasters think they could again fire up this afternoon with the heating of the day.
More storms will be possible again on Sunday, and there is another Level 1 severe weather risk for much of the state:
Areas in dark green will have another Level 1 severe weather risk on Sunday.SPC
Yet another Level 1 severe weather risk has been added to the forecast for Alabama for Monday but only includes north Alabama.
Here’s the outlook for Monday:
Just north Alabama will have a Level 1 risk on Monday.SPC
Then there could be a more significant round of storms on Tuesday. The SPC has added an enhanced risk for part of Alabama for Tuesday:
An enhanced risk for storms has been added to the forecast for north Alabama for Tuesday.SPC
A severe thunderstorm watch was released by the National Weather Service on Saturday at 5:21 a.m. in effect until 10 a.m. for Clay and Randolph counties.
Lightning on the horizon: Expert safety measures for thunderstorms
Each year, lightning strikes the United States approximately 25 million times, with the majority of these electrifying events occurring during the summer months. Unfortunately, lightning is responsible for claiming the lives of approximately 20 people annually, as reported by the weather service. The threat of lightning becomes more pronounced as thunderstorms draw nearer, peaking when the storm is directly overhead and gradually waning as it moves away.
To ensure your safety during a thunderstorm, keep these recommendations in mind:
Lightning safety plan:
When venturing outdoors, it’s vital to establish a clear plan for seeking shelter in case of lightning.
Monitor the sky for threatening signs and listen for the sound of thunder. If thunder is audible, it’s an indication that lightning is nearby.
Seek shelter promptly in a safe location, preferably indoors.
Indoors safety measures:
Once you’ve found shelter indoors, abstain from using corded phones, electrical appliances, or plumbing fixtures, and refrain from approaching windows and doors.
Lightning can follow conductive pathways, and these precautions reduce the risk of electrical surges.
Wait for the all-clear:
After the last lightning strike or thunderclap, wait at least 30 minutes before resuming outdoor activities.
It’s important to remember that lightning can strike even when a storm seems to have passed, so exercise caution.
When indoor shelter isn’t available:
If you find yourself outdoors with no access to indoor shelter during a thunderstorm, take these steps to maximize your safety:
Avoid open fields, hilltops, or ridge crests, which expose you to greater lightning risk.
Steer clear of tall, isolated trees and other prominent objects. In forested areas, stay close to lower stands of trees.
If you’re with a group, ensure individuals are spread out to prevent lightning current from transferring between people.
Camping in an open setting during a thunderstorm is strongly discouraged. If no alternative exists, set up camp in a valley, ravine, or other low-lying areas. Remember that a tent offers no protection against lightning.
Do not approach water bodies, wet objects, or metal items. Although water and metal do not attract lightning, they conduct electricity effectively and can pose significant risks.
In summary, when facing the threat of lightning, preparedness and vigilance are your best allies. By following these guidelines, you can significantly reduce the likelihood of lightning-related incidents and prioritize your safety.
Navigating rainy roads: Safety tips for wet weather
When heavy rain strikes, safety is paramount. Equip yourself with these guidelines from the weather service to navigate wet roads and avoid hazards:
Beware of swollen waterways:
During heavy rain, avoid parking or walking near culverts or drainage ditches, where swift-moving water can pose a serious risk.
Maintain safe driving distances:
The two-second rule for following distance is your ally in heavy rain. Extend it to four seconds to ensure safe spacing in adverse conditions.
Slow down and drive with care:
On wet roads, slowing down is paramount. Gradually ease off the accelerator and avoid abrupt braking to prevent skidding.
Choose your lane wisely:
Stay toward the middle lanes – water tends to pool in the outside lanes.
Visibility matters:
Turn on your headlights and be careful of other vehicles to the rear and in blind spot areas as they are especially difficult to see through rain-spattered windows.
Watch out for slippery roads:
The initial half-hour of rain is when roads are slickest due to a mixture of rain, grime, and oil. Exercise heightened caution during this period.
Keep a safe distance from large vehicles:
Don’t follow large trucks or buses too closely. The spray created by their large tires reduces your vision. Take care when passing them as well; if you must pass, do so quickly and safely.
Mind your windshield wipers:
Overloaded wiper blades can hinder visibility. If rain severely impairs your vision, pull over and wait for conditions to improve. Seek refuge at rest areas or sheltered spots.
If the roadside is your only option, pull off as far as possible, preferably past the end of a guard rail, and wait until the storm passes. Keep your headlights on and turn on emergency flashers to alert other drivers of your position.
In the face of heavy rain, these precautions can make a significant difference in ensuring your safety on the road. Remember to stay informed about weather conditions and heed guidance from local authorities for a secure journey.
Advance Local Weather Alerts is a service provided by United Robots, which uses machine learning to compile the latest data from the National Weather Service.
The handlers of Sovereignty took the air out of Saturday’s Preakness Stakes shortly after the Kentucky Derby by announcing the winner of the Run for the Roses would not pursue the Triple Crown in Baltimore.
That leaves the Preakness Stakes celebrating its prestige and history – Saturday’s race with be the 150th Run for the Black-Eyed Susans – and in a familiar position.
Since Justify captured the Preakness Stakes in 2018 on the way to becoming U.S. thoroughbred racing’s 13th Triple Crown winner, three of the next six Kentucky Derby winners didn’t run at Pimlico Race Course. The past two did, though, with Mage showing third in 2023 and Mystik Dan finishing second by 2.25 lengths to Seize the Grey in 2024.
The morning-line odds had five colts at 10-1 or better. Friday night’s live betting had six, including a trio of entrants with four or fewer career races – River Thames, Clever Again and Goal Oriented – that have never finished out of the money. Goal Oriented has raced only twice, won both and is trained by eight-time Preakness Stakes winner Bob Baffert.
Not included in those odds is Gosger, who has two wins and a second in three career races.
The nine-horse field includes two other Kentucky Derby runners – seventh-place finisher Sandman and 16th-place finisher American Promise.
Post time for the 150th Preakness Stakes is 6:01 p.m. CDT Saturday.
This will be the last Preakness Stakes at this version of Old Hilltop. Next year’s Preakness Stakes will be contested about 25 miles away at Laurel Park while the dilapidated facilities at Pimlico Race Course are replaced.
NBC’s televised coverage will begin at 1 p.m. Saturday.
The field for the Preakness Stakes, with post position, morning-line odds and live-betting odds (as of Friday night), includes:
Goal Oriented works out on Thursday, May 15, 2025, at Pimlico Race Course in Baltimore.(AP Photo/Stephanie Scarbrough)
Post Position 1: Goal Oriented 6-1 / 7-1
The colt raced for the first time on April 6 and ran away in the stretch to win a maiden special weight outing by 3.25 lengths at Santa Anita. Goal Oriented’s only other race came at Churchill Downs on the Kentucky Derby Day card, and he won that one wire-to-wire. Trainer: Bob Baffert, who saddled Preakness Stakes winners Silver Charm in 1997, Real Quiet in 1998, Point Given in 2001, War Emblem in 2002, Lookin at Lucky in 2010, American Pharoah in 2015, Justify in 2018 and National Treasure in 2023. Jockey: Flavien Pratt, who rode Preakness Stakes winner Rombauer in 2021. Record: 2-2-0-0. Earnings: $111,960. Pedigree: Bizzy Caroline by Not This Time.
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Journalism works out on Thursday, May 15, 2025, at Pimlico Race Course in Baltimore.(AP Photo/Stephanie Scarbrough)
Post Position 2: Journalism 8-5 / 6-5
The betting favorite at the Kentucky Derby, Journalism came home second by 1.5 lengths to Sovereignty in the Run for the Roses. The California colt had arrived at Churchill Downs on a four-race winning streak, including two this year – the Grade 2 San Felipe Stakes on March 1 and Grade 1 Santa Anita Derby on April 5. Trainer: Michael W. McCarthy, who saddled Preakness Stakes winner Rombauer in 2021. Jockey: Umberto Rispoli. Record: 6-4-1-1. Earnings: $1,638,880. Pedigree: Mopotism by Curlin, the winner of the 2007 Preakness Stakes.
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American Promise works out on Thursday, May 15, 2025, at Pimlico Race Course in Baltimore.(AP Photo/Stephanie Scarbrough)
Post Position 3: American Promise 15-1 / 9-1
A 21-1 long shot at the Kentucky Derby, American Promise was never a factor in the Run for the Roses with a 16th-place finish on May 3. The son of Triple Crown winner Justify took six races as a 2-year-old to break his maiden. As a 3-year-old, American Promise ran seventh at the Grade 3 Southwest Stakes and fifth at the Grade 2 Risen Star Stakes before getting his second win at the Virginia Derby on March 15. Trainer: D. Wayne Lukas, who saddled Preakness Stakes winners Codex in 1980, Tank’s Prospect in 1985, Tabasco Cat in 1994, Timber Country in 1995, Charismatic in 1999, Oxbow in 2013 and Seize the Grey in 20024. Jockey: Nik Juarez. Record: 9-2-1-1. Earnings: $444,874. Pedigree: Tapella by Justify, the winner of the 2018 Preakness Stakes.
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Heart of Honor works out on Wednesday, May 14, 2025, at Pimlico Race Course in Baltimore.(KT Kanazawich/The Baltimore Banner via AP)
Post Position 4: Heart of Honor 12-1 / 22-1
The British-bred colt will be making his United States debut in the Preakness Stakes. Heart of Honor’s past five races have come in Dubai, and he arrives at Pimlico off three straight runner-up finishes – by 1.5 lengths in the UAE 2,000 Guineas, a head in the Al Bastakiya and by a nose in the UAE Derby. In the latter race, Heart of Honor finished second to Admire Daytona, which finished 19th in the Kentucky Derby. Trainer: Jamie Osborne. Jockey: Saffie Osborne. Record: 6-2-4-0. Earnings: $340,919. Pedigree: Ruby Love by Honor A.P.
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Pay Billy works out on Wednesday, May 14, 2025, at Pimlico Race Course in Baltimore.(KT Kanazawich/The Baltimore Banner via AP)
Post Position 5: Pay Billy 20-1 / 11-1
The colt needed four races to post his first victory as a 2-year-old but has three victories and a second-place finish by a nose as a 3-year-old heading into his first graded-stakes race. In his past two races, Pay Billy has pulled away to a 3.5-length victory in the Private Terms Stakes on March 22 and a 1.5-length victory in the Federico Tesio Stakes on April 19 at Laurel Park. Trainer: Michael Gorham. Jockey: Raul Mena. Record: 8-4-1-1. Earnings: $234,475. Pedigree: Harlington’s Rose by Improbable.
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River Thames works out on Thursday, May 15, 2025, at Pimlico Race Course in Baltimore.(AP Photo/Stephanie Scarbrough)
Post Position 6: River Thames 9-2 / 10-1
Unraced as a 2-year-old, the colt won his first two times out at Gulfstream Park before advancing to graded-stakes competition. River Thames lost by a neck to Kentucky Derby winner Sovereignty in the Grade 2 Fountain of Youth Stakes on March 1. At the Grade 1 Bluegrass Stakes on April 8, River Thames placed third, three-quarters of a length behind East Avenue, which lost to Burnham Square by a nose. Trainer: Todd Pletcher. Jockey: Irad Ortiz Jr. Record: 4-2-1-1. Earnings: $261,900. Pedigree: Proportionality by Maclean’s Music.
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Sandman works out on Wednesday, May 14, 2025, at Pimlico Race Course in Baltimore.(Kevin Richardson/The Baltimore Sun via AP)
Post Position 7: Sandman 4-1 / 5-1
The coltentered the Kentucky Derby as the Grade 1 Arkansas Derby winner on March 29 and went off in the Run for the Roses with the second-shortest odds. But even though Sandman ran past six horses in the stretch, that netted only a seventh-place finish on May 3. At the Arkansas Derby, Sandman opened up to a 2.5-length victory after a second-place showing at the Grade 3 Southwest Stakes on Jan. 25 and a third-place run at the Grade 2 Rebel Stakes on Feb. 23. Trainer: Mark E. Casse, who saddled Preakness Stakes winner War of Will in 2019. Jockey: John Velazquez, who rode Preakness Stakes winner National Treasure in 2023. Record: 9-3-1-2. Earnings: $1,254,595. Pedigree: Distorted Music by Tapit.
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Clever Again works out on Thursday, May 15, 2025, at Pimlico Race Course in Baltimore.(AP Photo/Stephanie Scarbrough)
Post Position 8: Clever Again 5-1 / 5-1
The lightly raced son of Triple Crown winner American Pharoah lost by a head at Keeneland in his only race as a 2-year-old. As a 3-year-old, Clever Again has two wire-to-wire wins at Oaklawn Park, most recently taking the Hot Springs Stakes on March 30 by 4 lengths. Trainer: Steve Asmussen, who saddled Preakness Stakes winners Curlin in 2007 and Rachel Alexandra in 2009. Jockey: Jose Ortiz, who rode Preakness Stakes winner Early Voting in 2022. Record: 3-2-1-0. Earnings: $198,400. Pedigree: Flattering by American Pharoah, the winner of the 2015 Preakness Stakes.
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Gosger works out on Thursday, May 15, 2025, at Pimlico Race Course in Baltimore.(AP Photo/Stephanie Scarbrough)
Post Position 9: Gosger 20-1 / 19-1
A second-place run in the colt’s only 2-year-old outing was followed by a victory by 1.5 lengths over the favorite at Gulfstream Park on Feb. 15. Stepping up in competition, Gosger won the Grade 3 Lexington Stakes the last time out on April 12, beating two horses with shorter odds with a burst to the wire. Trainer: Brendan Walsh. Jockey: Luis Saez. Record: 3-2-1-0. Earnings: $292,200. Pedigree: Gloria by Nyquist.
Mark Inabinett is a sports reporter for Alabama Media Group. Follow him on X at @AMarkG1.
A report was issued from the National Weather Service on Saturday at 4:27 a.m. for strong thunderstorms until 5:15 a.m. for Blount, Etowah, Jefferson and St. Clair counties.
The storms could bring marble-sized hail (0.5 inches) and wind gusts of up to 50 mph.
“At 4:27 a.m., Doppler radar tracked strong thunderstorms along a line extending from near Strawberry to near Arkadelphia. Movement was east at 50 mph,” states the weather service. “Gusty winds could knock down tree limbs and blow around unsecured objects. Minor hail damage to vegetation is possible.”
Locations impacted by the alert include Whitney Junction, Gadsden Steam Plant, Hokes Bluff, Smoke Rise, Rockledge, Fairview, Bangor, Aurora, Strawberry, Attalla, Gadsden Water Works, Susan Moore, Glencoe, Chamblees Mill, Snead, Crudup, Holly Springs, Gallant, Gadsden Municipal Airport and Keener.
The weather service states, “If outdoors, consider seeking shelter inside a building. A Severe Thunderstorm Watch remains in effect until 10 a.m. for central, northeastern and east central Alabama.”
Preparing for impending lightning strikes: Expert safety recommendations
Lightning strikes the United States approximately 25 million times each year, with the bulk of these electrical discharges occurring during the summer months. Tragically, lightning claims the lives of about 20 individuals annually, as reported by the weather service. The risk of lightning-related incidents escalates as thunderstorms draw near, reaching its peak when the storm directly looms overhead. However, it gradually recedes as the tempest moves away.
To protect yourself during a thunderstorm, take these recommendations into consideration:
Lightning safety plan:
When venturing outdoors, it’s vital to establish a clear plan for seeking shelter in case of lightning.
Monitor the sky for threatening signs and listen for the sound of thunder. If thunder is audible, it’s an indication that lightning is nearby.
Seek shelter promptly in a safe location, preferably indoors.
Indoors safety measures:
Once you’ve found shelter indoors, abstain from using corded phones, electrical appliances, or plumbing fixtures, and refrain from approaching windows and doors.
These precautions help reduce the risk of electrical surges, as lightning can follow conductive pathways.
Wait for the all-clear:
After the last lightning strike or thunderclap, wait at least 30 minutes before resuming outdoor activities.
It’s important to remember that lightning can strike even when a storm seems to have passed, so exercise caution.
When indoor shelter isn’t available:
If you find yourself outdoors with no access to indoor shelter during a thunderstorm, take these steps to maximize your safety:
Avoid open fields, hilltops, or ridge crests, as they expose you to greater lightning risk.
Steer clear of tall, isolated trees and other prominent objects. In forested areas, stay close to lower stands of trees.
If you’re with a group, ensure individuals are spread out to prevent lightning current from transferring between people.
Camping in an open setting during a thunderstorm is strongly discouraged. If no alternative exists, set up camp in a valley, ravine, or other low-lying areas. Remember that a tent offers no protection against lightning.
Do not approach water bodies, wet objects, or metal items. Although water and metal do not attract lightning, they conduct electricity effectively and can pose significant risks.
In summary, when facing the threat of lightning, vigilance and preparedness are your best allies. By following these guidelines, you can significantly reduce the chances of lightning-related accidents and prioritize your safety.
Mastering wet roads: Safety tips for heavy rainfall
Heavy rainfall may lead to flooding if prolonged or if there is excessive runoff. Excessive runoff can be a result of saturated ground and/or rainfall intensity. Follow these recommendations from the weather service to stay safe in heavy rain:
Beware of swollen waterways:
Avoid parking or walking in close proximity to culverts or drainage ditches, as the swiftly moving water during heavy rain can potentially carry you away.
Maintain safe driving distances:
Use the two-second rule to maintain a safe distance from the car in front of you and allow an extra two seconds in heavy rain.
Slow down and drive with care:
On wet roads, reducing your speed is crucial. Ease off the gas pedal gradually and avoid abrupt braking to prevent skidding.
Choose your lane wisely:
Stick to the middle lanes on multi-lane roads to minimize the risk of hydroplaning, as water tends to accumulate in outer lanes.
Prioritize visibility
Enhance your visibility in heavy rain by activating your headlights. Be particularly vigilant for vehicles in blind spots, as rain-smeared windows can obscure them.
Watch out for slippery roads:
The initial half-hour of rain is when roads are slickest due to a mixture of rain, grime, and oil. Exercise heightened caution during this period.
Keep a safe distance from large vehicles:
Don’t follow large trucks or buses too closely. The spray created by their large tires reduces your vision. Take care when passing them as well; if you must pass, do so quickly and safely.
Mind your windshield wipers:
Overloaded wiper blades can hinder visibility. If rain severely limits your sight, pull over and wait for conditions to improve. Seek refuge at rest areas or protected spots.
When stopping by the roadside is your only option, position your vehicle as far off the road as possible, ideally beyond guardrails. Keep your headlights on and activate emergency flashers to alert other drivers of your position.
In the face of heavy rain, these precautions can make a significant difference in ensuring your safety on the road. Remember to stay informed about weather conditions and heed guidance from local authorities for a secure journey.
Advance Local Weather Alerts is a service provided by United Robots, which uses machine learning to compile the latest data from the National Weather Service.
“The storm which prompted the warning has weakened below severe limits, and no longer poses an immediate threat to life or property. Therefore, the warning will be allowed to expire. A Severe Thunderstorm Watch remains in effect until 10 a.m. for north central, northeastern and northwestern Alabama,” according to the National Weather Service.
Preparing for impending lightning strikes: Expert safety recommendations
Each year, lightning strikes the United States approximately 25 million times, with the majority of these electrifying events occurring during the summer months. Unfortunately, lightning is responsible for claiming the lives of approximately 20 people annually, as reported by the weather service. The threat of lightning becomes more pronounced as thunderstorms draw nearer, peaking when the storm is directly overhead and gradually waning as it moves away.
To protect yourself during a thunderstorm, take these recommendations into consideration:
Lightning safety plan:
When venturing outdoors, it’s crucial to have a lightning safety plan in place.
Monitor the sky for threatening signs and listen for the sound of thunder. If thunder is audible, it’s an indication that lightning is nearby.
Seek shelter promptly in a safe location, preferably indoors.
Indoors safety measures:
Once you’ve found shelter indoors, abstain from using corded phones, electrical appliances, or plumbing fixtures, and refrain from approaching windows and doors.
These precautions help reduce the risk of electrical surges, as lightning can follow conductive pathways.
Wait for the all-clear:
After the last lightning strike or thunderclap, wait at least 30 minutes before resuming outdoor activities.
It’s important to remember that lightning can strike even when a storm seems to have passed, so exercise caution.
When indoor shelter isn’t available:
If you find yourself outdoors with no access to indoor shelter during a thunderstorm, take these steps to maximize your safety:
Avoid open fields, hilltops, or ridge crests, as they expose you to greater lightning risk.
Steer clear of tall, isolated trees and other prominent objects. In wooded areas, stay close to lower stands of trees.
If you’re in a group, ensure that individuals are spaced out to prevent lightning current from transferring between people.
Camping in an open setting during a thunderstorm is strongly discouraged. If you have no alternative, set up camp in a valley, ravine, or other low-lying areas. It’s crucial to note that a tent provides no protection against lightning.
Do not approach water bodies, wet objects, or metal items. While water and metal don’t attract lightning, they conduct electricity effectively and can pose significant risks.
In summary, when facing the threat of lightning, vigilance and preparedness are your best allies. By following these guidelines, you can significantly reduce the chances of lightning-related accidents and prioritize your safety.
Rainy roadways ahead: Essential safety tips for heavy rain
When heavy rain sets in, the risk of flooding and hazardous driving conditions rises. Whether it’s prolonged rainfall or rapid runoff, being prepared is essential. Here are some valuable safety tips from the weather service to ensure you stay safe in heavy rain:
Beware of swollen waterways:
Avoid parking or walking in close proximity to culverts or drainage ditches, as the swiftly moving water during heavy rain can potentially carry you away.
Maintain safe driving distances:
The two-second rule for following distance is your ally in heavy rain. Extend it to four seconds to ensure safe spacing in adverse conditions.
Slow down and drive with care:
If it is raining and the roads are wet, slow down. Take your foot off the accelerator and let your speed drop gradually. Never use the brakes suddenly because this may cause the car to skid.
Choose your lane wisely:
Stick to the middle lanes on multi-lane roads to minimize the risk of hydroplaning, as water tends to accumulate in outer lanes.
Prioritize visibility
Enhance your visibility in heavy rain by activating your headlights. Be particularly vigilant for vehicles in blind spots, as rain-smeared windows can obscure them.
Watch out for slippery roads:
The first half-hour of rain is when roads are slickest due to a mix of rain, grime, and oil. Exercise heightened caution during this period.
Keep a safe distance from large vehicles:
Don’t follow large trucks or buses too closely. The spray created by their large tires reduces your vision. Take care when passing them as well; if you must pass, do so quickly and safely.
Mind your windshield wipers:
Overloaded wiper blades can hinder visibility. If rain severely limits your sight, pull over and wait for conditions to improve. Seek refuge at rest areas or protected spots.
When stopping by the roadside is your only option, position your vehicle as far off the road as possible, ideally beyond guardrails. Keep your headlights on and activate emergency flashers to alert other drivers of your position.
In the face of heavy rain, these precautions can make a significant difference in ensuring your safety on the road. Remember to stay informed about weather conditions and heed guidance from local authorities for a secure journey.
Advance Local Weather Alerts is a service provided by United Robots, which uses machine learning to compile the latest data from the National Weather Service.
Dear Annie: I have been married for 25 years and always thought I had the perfect marriage. Everything was fine until my husband turned 50. After that, everything changed.
He became grumpy and miserable. When I asked if everything was OK, he got angry. I planned a surprise trip, thinking he was stressed from work and needed a break, but during the entire trip he was very angry, as if I had taken him away from something important. He made it so difficult, and I tried to get close to him, but he didn’t want to be near me. When we returned home, he insisted on sleeping in a separate room, saying only that he couldn’t sleep in the room we had shared our entire marriage anymore.
He also always complains about money, but I don’t understand why because we both work and have more money than we need.
Recently, I needed to print some documents and, while searching for them on the computer, I found disturbing things in his search history, particularly related to the video games he plays. It was horrible. When I confronted him, he said it was just a fantasy he was having.
Now I want to get away from all this and file for divorce. My children think I should wait and give him time to change back to his old self. But my heart is telling me to run.
What do you think I should do? How long should a person wait to be loved? — Worn Down Wife
Dear Worn Down Wife: In a perfect world, you wouldn’t have to wait at all. But the reality is, your husband is clearly going through something significant.
Constant anger, financial anxiety, emotional and physical distance and hiding his dark fantasies are all serious red flags. You noticed these changes around the time he turned 50, which makes me wonder if something physical or mental could be at play. A visit with his doctor would be a smart first step to rule that out.
If you haven’t already, I’d strongly recommend couples counseling before making any final decisions. Maybe he just needs a safe, neutral space to open up about all he’s been hiding.
Marriage can survive a lot, even what you’re facing, but only if both people are emotionally invested and working toward the same goal. What exactly is going on with your husband isn’t clear, but what is clear is that you are carrying the burdens of this marriage alone — and you don’t deserve to.
“How Can I Forgive My Cheating Partner?” is out now! Annie Lane’s second anthology — featuring favorite columns on marriage, infidelity, communication and reconciliation — is available as a paperback and e-book. Visit Creators Publishing for more information. Send your questions for Annie Lane to [email protected].
The National Weather Service issued a weather alert at 3:30 a.m. on Saturday for strong thunderstorms until 4:30 a.m. for Lawrence, Limestone, Madison, Morgan, Marshall and Cullman counties.
Residents can anticipate wind gusts of up to 50 mph.
“At 3:29 a.m., Doppler radar tracked strong thunderstorms along a line extending from near Moulton to near Houston Recreational Area to near Glen Allen. Movement was east at 50 mph,” states the weather service. “Gusty winds could knock down tree limbs and blow around unsecured objects.”
Locations impacted by the alert include Wilburn, Trinity, Valhermoso Springs, Cullman, Crane Hill, Falkville, Speake, Basham, Battleground and Lacon.
The weather service states, “If outdoors, consider seeking shelter inside a building. These storms may intensify, so be certain to monitor local radio stations and available television stations for additional information and possible warnings from the National Weather Service. A Severe Thunderstorm Watch remains in effect until 10 a.m. for north central, northeastern and northwestern Alabama.”
Preparing for impending lightning strikes: Expert safety recommendations
Lightning strikes the United States approximately 25 million times each year, with the bulk of these electrical discharges occurring during the summer months. Tragically, lightning claims the lives of about 20 individuals annually, as reported by the weather service. The risk of lightning-related incidents escalates as thunderstorms draw near, reaching its peak when the storm directly looms overhead. However, it gradually recedes as the tempest moves away.
To guarantee your safety in the midst of a thunderstorm, take into account the following recommendations:
Lightning safety plan:
When venturing outdoors, it’s vital to establish a clear plan for seeking shelter in case of lightning.
Stay vigilant by monitoring the sky for ominous signs and listening for the telltale sound of thunder. If thunder is audible, it’s a clear indication of nearby lightning.
Seek shelter promptly in a safe location, preferably indoors.
Indoors safety measures:
Once you’re indoors, avoid using corded phones, electrical devices, plumbing fixtures, and stay away from windows and doors.
These precautions help reduce the risk of electrical surges, as lightning can follow conductive pathways.
Wait for the all-clear:
After the last lightning strike or thunderclap, wait at least 30 minutes before resuming outdoor activities.
It’s important to remember that lightning can strike even when a storm seems to have passed, so exercise caution.
When indoor shelter isn’t available:
If you find yourself outdoors with no access to indoor shelter during a thunderstorm, take these steps to maximize your safety:
Avoid open fields, hilltops, or ridge crests, which expose you to greater lightning risk.
Steer clear of tall, isolated trees and other prominent objects. In wooded areas, stay close to lower stands of trees.
If you’re in a group, ensure that individuals are spaced out to prevent lightning current from transferring between people.
Camping in an open setting during a thunderstorm is strongly discouraged. If you have no alternative, set up camp in a valley, ravine, or other low-lying areas. It’s crucial to note that a tent provides no protection against lightning.
Do not approach water bodies, wet objects, or metal items. While water and metal don’t attract lightning, they conduct electricity effectively and can pose significant risks.
In summary, when facing the threat of lightning, preparedness and vigilance are your best allies. By following these guidelines, you can significantly reduce the likelihood of lightning-related incidents and prioritize your safety.
Navigating rainy roads: Safety tips for wet weather
When heavy rain sets in, the risk of flooding and hazardous driving conditions rises. Whether it’s prolonged rainfall or rapid runoff, being prepared is essential. Here are some valuable safety tips from the weather service to ensure you stay safe in heavy rain:
Beware of swollen waterways:
During heavy rain, avoid parking or walking near culverts or drainage ditches, where swift-moving water can pose a serious risk.
Maintain safe driving distances:
Adhere to the two-second rule for maintaining a safe following distance behind the vehicle in front of you. In heavy rain, allow an additional two seconds of distance to compensate for reduced traction and braking effectiveness.
Reduce speed and drive cautiously:
If it is raining and the roads are wet, slow down. Take your foot off the accelerator and let your speed drop gradually. Never use the brakes suddenly because this may cause the car to skid.
Choose your lane wisely:
Stay toward the middle lanes – water tends to pool in the outside lanes.
Prioritize visibility
Enhance your visibility in heavy rain by activating your headlights. Be particularly vigilant for vehicles in blind spots, as rain-smeared windows can obscure them.
Watch out for slippery roads:
Be extra careful during the first half hour after rain begins. Grime and oil on the road surface mix with water to make the road slippery.
Keep a safe distance from large vehicles:
Don’t follow large trucks or buses too closely. The spray created by their large tires reduces your vision. Take care when passing them as well; if you must pass, do so quickly and safely.
Mind your windshield wipers:
Heavy rain can overload the wiper blades. When visibility is so limited that the edges of the road or other vehicles cannot be seen at a safe distance, it is time to pull over and wait for the rain to ease up. It is best to stop at rest areas or other protected areas.
If the roadside is your only option, pull off as far as possible, preferably past the end of a guard rail, and wait until the storm passes. Keep your headlights on and turn on emergency flashers to alert other drivers of your position.
By following these safety measures, you can significantly reduce risks and ensure your well-being when heavy rain pours down. Stay informed about weather conditions and heed advice from local authorities to make your journey safe and sound.
Advance Local Weather Alerts is a service provided by United Robots, which uses machine learning to compile the latest data from the National Weather Service.
The National Weather Service issued a severe thunderstorm warning at 2:37 a.m. on Saturday in effect until 3:15 a.m. for Lamar County.
The storms could bring quarter-sized hail (1 inch) and wind gusts of up to 60 mph.
“At 2:37 a.m., severe thunderstorms were located along a line extending from near Detroit to 9 miles northwest of Sulligent to near Aberdeen, moving east at 35 mph,” according to the weather service. “Hail damage to vehicles is expected. Expect wind damage to roofs, siding, and trees.”
Locations impacted by the warning include Cody, Detroit, Henson Springs, Blooming Grove, Lamar County Airport, Lamar County Public Lake, Vernon, Star, Sulligent, Beaverton, Pine Springs, Crews, Bedford, Hightogy, Crossville and Gattman.
The weather service states, “For your protection move to an interior room on the lowest floor of a building.”
Staying safe as lightning approaches: Expert advice
Lightning strikes the United States approximately 25 million times each year, with the bulk of these electrical discharges occurring during the summer months. Tragically, lightning claims the lives of about 20 individuals annually, as reported by the weather service. The risk of lightning-related incidents escalates as thunderstorms draw near, reaching its peak when the storm directly looms overhead. However, it gradually recedes as the tempest moves away.
To ensure your safety during a thunderstorm, keep these recommendations in mind:
Lightning safety plan:
When venturing outdoors, it’s vital to establish a clear plan for seeking shelter in case of lightning.
Stay vigilant by monitoring the sky for ominous signs and listening for the telltale sound of thunder. If thunder is audible, it’s a clear indication of nearby lightning.
Seek shelter promptly in a safe location, preferably indoors.
Indoors safety measures:
Once you’re indoors, avoid using corded phones, electrical devices, plumbing fixtures, and stay away from windows and doors.
These precautions help reduce the risk of electrical surges, as lightning can follow conductive pathways.
Wait for the all-clear:
After the last lightning strike or thunderclap, wait at least 30 minutes before resuming outdoor activities.
Lightning can strike even when a storm has seemingly passed, so exercise caution.
When indoor shelter isn’t available:
If you find yourself outdoors without access to indoor shelter during a thunderstorm, take these steps to maximize your safety:
Avoid open fields, hilltops, or ridge crests, which expose you to greater lightning risk.
Steer clear of tall, isolated trees and other prominent objects. In forested areas, stay close to lower stands of trees.
If you’re in a group, ensure that individuals are spaced out to prevent lightning current from transferring between people.
Camping in an open setting during a thunderstorm is strongly discouraged. If no alternative exists, set up camp in a valley, ravine, or other low-lying areas. Remember that a tent offers no protection against lightning.
Do not approach water bodies, wet objects, or metal items. While water and metal don’t attract lightning, they conduct electricity effectively and can pose significant risks.
In summary, when facing the threat of lightning, vigilance and preparedness are your best allies. By following these guidelines, you can significantly reduce the chances of lightning-related accidents and prioritize your safety.
Navigating heavy rain: Essential safety measures for wet roads
Rain can turn roads into hazards. Stay informed and follow these tips from the weather service to ensure safety during heavy rainfall:
Beware of swollen waterways:
During heavy rain, avoid parking or walking near culverts or drainage ditches, where swift-moving water can pose a serious risk.
Maintain safe driving distances:
Adhere to the two-second rule for maintaining a safe following distance behind the vehicle in front of you. In heavy rain, allow an additional two seconds of distance to compensate for reduced traction and braking effectiveness.
Slow down and stay cautious:
On wet roads, slowing down is paramount. Gradually ease off the accelerator and avoid abrupt braking to prevent skidding.
Choose your lane wisely:
Stick to the middle lanes on multi-lane roads to minimize the risk of hydroplaning, as water tends to accumulate in outer lanes.
Visibility matters:
Enhance your visibility in heavy rain by activating your headlights. Be particularly vigilant for vehicles in blind spots, as rain-smeared windows can obscure them.
Watch out for slippery roads:
The initial half-hour of rain is when roads are slickest due to a mixture of rain, grime, and oil. Exercise heightened caution during this period.
Keep a safe distance from large vehicles:
Don’t follow large trucks or buses too closely. The spray created by their large tires reduces your vision. Take care when passing them as well; if you must pass, do so quickly and safely.
Mind your windshield wipers:
Overloaded wiper blades can hinder visibility. If rain severely limits your sight, pull over and wait for conditions to improve. Seek refuge at rest areas or protected spots.
If the roadside is your only option, pull off as far as possible, preferably past the end of a guard rail, and wait until the storm passes. Keep your headlights on and turn on emergency flashers to alert other drivers of your position.
By following these safety measures, you can significantly reduce risks and ensure your well-being when heavy rain pours down. Stay informed about weather conditions and heed advice from local authorities to make your journey safe and sound.
Advance Local Weather Alerts is a service provided by United Robots, which uses machine learning to compile the latest data from the National Weather Service.
At 2:30 a.m. on Saturday, the National Weather Service issued a severe thunderstorm warning in effect until 3:30 a.m. for Colbert, Franklin and Lawrence counties.
Wind gusts of up to 60 mph and quarter-sized hail (1 inch) are expected.
“At 2:30 a.m., severe thunderstorms were located along a line extending from Belmont to near Detroit to 7 miles southeast of Amory, moving east at 55 mph,” according to the weather service. “Hail damage to vehicles is expected. Expect wind damage to roofs, siding, and trees.”
Locations impacted by the warning include Mt Hope, Atwood, Littleville, La Grange, Tharptown, Ne Smith, Duketon, Russellville, Rockwood and Wren.
The weather service states, “For your protection move to an interior room on the lowest floor of a building. Large hail, damaging wind, and continuous cloud to ground lightning are occurring with these storms. Move indoors immediately. Lightning is one of nature’s leading killers. Remember, if you can hear thunder, you are close enough to be struck by lightning.”
Shielding yourself from approaching lightning: Expert safety guidelines
Each year, lightning strikes the United States approximately 25 million times, with the majority of these electrifying events occurring during the summer months. Unfortunately, lightning is responsible for claiming the lives of approximately 20 people annually, as reported by the weather service. The threat of lightning becomes more pronounced as thunderstorms draw nearer, peaking when the storm is directly overhead and gradually waning as it moves away.
To guarantee your safety in the midst of a thunderstorm, take into account the following recommendations:
Lightning safety plan:
When venturing outdoors, it’s crucial to have a lightning safety plan in place.
Stay vigilant by monitoring the sky for ominous signs and listening for the telltale sound of thunder. If thunder is audible, it’s a clear indication of nearby lightning.
Seek a safe place to shelter, preferably indoors.
Indoors safety measures:
Once you’re indoors, avoid using corded phones, electrical devices, plumbing fixtures, and stay away from windows and doors.
Lightning can follow conductive pathways, and these precautions reduce the risk of electrical surges.
Wait for the all-clear:
After the last lightning strike or thunderclap, wait at least 30 minutes before resuming outdoor activities.
It’s important to remember that lightning can strike even when a storm seems to have passed, so exercise caution.
When indoor shelter isn’t available:
If you find yourself outdoors with no access to indoor shelter during a thunderstorm, take these steps to maximize your safety:
Avoid open fields, hilltops, or ridge crests, which expose you to greater lightning risk.
Steer clear of tall, isolated trees and other prominent objects. In forested areas, stay close to lower stands of trees.
If you’re with a group, ensure individuals are spread out to prevent lightning current from transferring between people.
Camping in an open setting during a thunderstorm is strongly discouraged. If you have no alternative, set up camp in a valley, ravine, or other low-lying areas. It’s crucial to note that a tent provides no protection against lightning.
Do not approach water bodies, wet objects, or metal items. Although water and metal do not attract lightning, they conduct electricity effectively and can pose significant risks.
In summary, when facing the threat of lightning, preparedness and vigilance are your best allies. By following these guidelines, you can significantly reduce the likelihood of lightning-related incidents and prioritize your safety.
Navigating heavy rain: Essential safety measures for wet roads
When heavy rain strikes, safety is paramount. Equip yourself with these guidelines from the weather service to navigate wet roads and avoid hazards:
Beware of swollen waterways:
In heavy rain, refrain from parking or walking near culverts or drainage ditches, where swift-moving water can pose a grave danger.
Maintain safe driving distances:
Adhere to the two-second rule for maintaining a safe following distance behind the vehicle in front of you. In heavy rain, allow an additional two seconds of distance to compensate for reduced traction and braking effectiveness.
Reduce speed and drive cautiously:
On wet roads, reducing your speed is crucial. Ease off the gas pedal gradually and avoid abrupt braking to prevent skidding.
Choose your lane wisely:
Stick to the middle lanes to minimize the risk of hydroplaning. Outer lanes are more prone to accumulating water.
Prioritize visibility
Turn on your headlights and be careful of other vehicles to the rear and in blind spot areas as they are especially difficult to see through rain-spattered windows.
Watch out for slippery roads:
The first half-hour of rain is when roads are slickest due to a mix of rain, grime, and oil. Exercise heightened caution during this period.
Keep a safe distance from large vehicles:
Don’t follow large trucks or buses too closely. The spray created by their large tires reduces your vision. Take care when passing them as well; if you must pass, do so quickly and safely.
Mind your windshield wipers:
Overloaded wiper blades can hinder visibility. If rain severely impairs your vision, pull over and wait for conditions to improve. Seek refuge at rest areas or sheltered spots.
When stopping by the roadside is your only option, position your vehicle as far off the road as possible, ideally beyond guardrails. Keep your headlights on and activate emergency flashers to alert other drivers of your position.
In the face of heavy rain, these precautions can make a significant difference in ensuring your safety on the road. Remember to stay informed about weather conditions and heed guidance from local authorities for a secure journey.
Advance Local Weather Alerts is a service provided by United Robots, which uses machine learning to compile the latest data from the National Weather Service.
A weather alert was issued by the National Weather Service on Saturday at 2:27 a.m. for strong thunderstorms until 3:45 a.m. for Marion, Lamar, Fayette, Winston and Walker counties.
Anticipate penny-sized hail (0.75 inches) and wind gusts of up to 50 mph.
“At 2:26 a.m., Doppler radar tracked strong thunderstorms along a line extending from near Fairview to 6 miles southeast of Smithville to near Aberdeen. Movement was east at 55 mph,” according to the weather service. “Gusty winds could knock down tree limbs and blow around unsecured objects. Minor hail damage to vegetation is possible.”
Locations impacted by the alert include Cody, Henson Springs, Camp McDowell, Wayside, Clear Creek, Lynn, Ashbank, Rankin Fite Airport, Fayette, Pebble, Bull Branch, Coon Creek, Pine Springs, Marion County Public Lake, Hightogy, Piney Grove, Natural Bridge, Black Pond, Weiss and Bazemore.
The weather service adds, “If outdoors, consider seeking shelter inside a building. A Severe Thunderstorm Watch remains in effect until 10 a.m. for central, northwestern and west central Alabama.”
When lightning looms: Expert safety tips for thunderstorms
Each year, lightning strikes the United States approximately 25 million times, with the majority of these electrifying events occurring during the summer months. Unfortunately, lightning is responsible for claiming the lives of approximately 20 people annually, as reported by the weather service. The threat of lightning becomes more pronounced as thunderstorms draw nearer, peaking when the storm is directly overhead and gradually waning as it moves away.
To ensure your safety during a thunderstorm, keep these recommendations in mind:
Lightning safety plan:
When venturing outdoors, it’s crucial to have a lightning safety plan in place.
Stay vigilant by monitoring the sky for ominous signs and listening for the telltale sound of thunder. If thunder is audible, it’s a clear indication of nearby lightning.
Seek a safe place to shelter, preferably indoors.
Indoors safety measures:
Once you’re indoors, avoid using corded phones, electrical devices, plumbing fixtures, and stay away from windows and doors.
These precautions help reduce the risk of electrical surges, as lightning can follow conductive pathways.
Wait for the all-clear:
After the last lightning strike or thunderclap, wait at least 30 minutes before resuming outdoor activities.
Lightning can strike even when a storm has seemingly passed, so exercise caution.
When indoor shelter isn’t available:
If you find yourself outdoors with no access to indoor shelter during a thunderstorm, take these steps to maximize your safety:
Avoid open fields, hilltops, or ridge crests, as they expose you to greater lightning risk.
Steer clear of tall, isolated trees and other prominent objects. In forested areas, stay close to lower stands of trees.
If you’re in a group, ensure that individuals are spaced out to prevent lightning current from transferring between people.
Camping in an open setting during a thunderstorm is strongly discouraged. If you have no alternative, set up camp in a valley, ravine, or other low-lying areas. It’s crucial to note that a tent provides no protection against lightning.
Do not approach water bodies, wet objects, or metal items. Although water and metal do not attract lightning, they conduct electricity effectively and can pose significant risks.
In summary, when facing the threat of lightning, preparedness and vigilance are your best allies. By following these guidelines, you can significantly reduce the likelihood of lightning-related incidents and prioritize your safety.
Mastering wet roads: Safety tips for heavy rainfall
Rain can turn roads into hazards. Stay informed and follow these tips from the weather service to ensure safety during heavy rainfall:
Beware of rapid water flow:
Avoid parking or walking in close proximity to culverts or drainage ditches, as the swiftly moving water during heavy rain can potentially carry you away.
Maintain safe driving distances:
Use the two-second rule to maintain a safe distance from the car in front of you and allow an extra two seconds in heavy rain.
Reduce speed and drive cautiously:
On wet roads, reducing your speed is crucial. Ease off the gas pedal gradually and avoid abrupt braking to prevent skidding.
Choose your lane wisely:
Stick to the middle lanes on multi-lane roads to minimize the risk of hydroplaning, as water tends to accumulate in outer lanes.
Prioritize visibility
Enhance your visibility in heavy rain by activating your headlights. Be particularly vigilant for vehicles in blind spots, as rain-smeared windows can obscure them.
Watch out for slippery roads:
Be extra careful during the first half hour after rain begins. Grime and oil on the road surface mix with water to make the road slippery.
Keep a safe distance from large vehicles:
Large trucks and buses can reduce your visibility with tire spray. Avoid tailgating and pass them swiftly and safely.
Mind your windshield wipers:
Overloaded wiper blades can hinder visibility. If rain severely impairs your vision, pull over and wait for conditions to improve. Seek refuge at rest areas or sheltered spots.
If the roadside is your only option, pull off as far as possible, preferably past the end of a guard rail, and wait until the storm passes. Keep your headlights on and turn on emergency flashers to alert other drivers of your position.
By following these safety measures, you can significantly reduce risks and ensure your well-being when heavy rain pours down. Stay informed about weather conditions and heed advice from local authorities to make your journey safe and sound.
Advance Local Weather Alerts is a service provided by United Robots, which uses machine learning to compile the latest data from the National Weather Service.
