DEAR MISS MANNERS: Five people go out to dinner. Two of them have a special interest in something the other three do not. Is it polite for those two people to have a side conversation?

GENTLE READER: Yes, so long as the two are seated together and are having the side conversation with each other, not with their cellular telephones.

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