DEAR MISS MANNERS: My husband and I are 70 years old and tired of small talk. We have friends and acquaintances from decades ago who insist on calling us to get together for meals, etc.

I make excuses every time, but they keep calling. Some get the hint and stop the calls, but most don’t. Any advice on how to dissuade these people?

GENTLE READER: Don’t answer the telephone.

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