Dear Annie: I want to see my grandchildren

Dear Annie: I am a grandma, mammaw and granny to six amazing grandchildren. Two of my three sons have these children. My sons are constantly ignoring me. They treat me like I do not exist.

I raised them by myself after their father tragically passed away. I did my best to give them a great life. They all mean the world to me. I just need a little advice from you on how to find a way to see my grandchildren.

Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. — Heartbroken Mammaw

Dear Heart Broken Mammaw: Be patient and continue to reach out to your sons and find out what their needs are.

Do they need help with the kids, or are there sporting events you could attend?

Tell your sons how much you desire a relationship with your grandchildren.

Grandparents can be a very positive influence on grandchildren’s lives, but the parents have to allow it.

Grandparents tend to be more patient and have a little more life experience than parents who are with their children every day.

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