Miss Manners: How do I politely let friends and family know that I no longer wish to give out medical advice?

Miss Manners: How do I politely let friends and family know that I no longer wish to give out medical advice?

DEAR MISS MANNERS: I am a retired clinical physician. Despite my retirement, I still have friends and even minor acquaintances who call, text or email me about problems that fall into my specialty.

One of the reasons I retired is because I am burned out on providing health care. Also, as I no longer have an office, I can’t really provide an examination, procedure or other follow-up.

How do I politely let them know that they should seek counsel elsewhere, and that I no longer wish to give out medical advice?

GENTLE READER: By prescribing another doctor: “I’m not keeping up with the field, but Dr. Tenderheart could help you.”

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