Dear Annie: Would having an un-birthday help my relationship with my grandkids?

Dear Annie: “Guilty Grandma” should have “Un-Birthdays” for the grandkids whose birthdays she cannot attend before she goes to Florida. Un-birthdays are when you celebrate on a day that is not your actual birthday that is convenient for others to attend. — Un-Birthday

Dear Un-Birthday: I am all for being flexible in order to celebrate your loved ones’ birthdays. Thank you for sharing your suggestion.

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