Dear Annie: My wife packed up and left me while I was out of town

Dear Annie: So I have one for you. I was out of town working, and when I got home, my wife was gone! We were having some marriage problems but were supposed to see a therapist after I returned home. I’ll say it again: When I did get home, she was gone!

She packed her stuff and left me and our dog all alone. I tried to call and text with no answer. I’m left in the dark trying to find out where everything went wrong. I have started therapy by myself to try to figure things out. Please help with some advice on how to keep going in life. — Left High and Dry

Dear High and Dry: First off, I want to say I am sorry for the way your wife handled this situation. It certainly adds to the trauma of a divorce, getting left without notice and being caught off guard. I am so glad that you began therapy, and while I know it will take time to heal, it certainly is good to be rid of someone who was that inconsiderate and cold.

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