Miss Manners: Do I have to get dressed up just to relax on my own deck?

DEAR MISS MANNERS: Should I be “presentable” when sitting out on the back deck of our townhouse? It is only visible from two of our neighbors’ backyards.

One of these yards is never frequented, but the other occasionally has someone visible. I like to sit on the deck in my housecoat and sandals. Should I be more fully dressed?

GENTLE READER: A housecoat and sandals sound pretty tame compared to the states of undress so often flaunted in full neighborly view. As long as you are reasonably covered, Miss Manners cares less about what is actually covering you.

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